Hope Is F*cked
Hope often stems from avoiding pain and seeking pleasure, which can lead to destructive behaviors.
Relying on hope can prevent us from confronting reality and taking meaningful action.
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The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck / Everything Is F*cked Box Set
by Mark Manson
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His style is really direct — kind of like a friend shaking your shoulders and saying, “Get real with yourself.” His work focuses a lot on accepting limitations, handling pain, finding meaning, and letting go of unrealistic expectations.
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