1. Don't Criticize, Condemn, or Complain
Criticizing others only puts them on the defensive and hurts their pride. Instead, try to understand their viewpoints and be empathetic. Approach situations constructively to foster better relationships.
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Key principles inspired by How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie..
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