Connect With Your Date
To make your date feel listened to, attractive, and interesting: Listen to their stories, Dig deeper into what they tell you. Only share your own experiences in moderation. You'll naturally be concerned with how you're coming across, but remember: You're not dating yourself. You're dating them.
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After hours of discussion with my friend & going through a lot of books like Models, How to Not Die Alone, The Fine Art of Small Talk, Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man, etc here are the best 5 Dating Tips for Finding The Right Person!
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