General Life Rules to Live by

It is much more difficult to truly understand this simple but forever complicated idea. Let go of societal pulls and allow your own soul to pull your into the right direction. Follow your heart, mind, body and soul. This will lift so much weight off of your back.

Some day, sit down and be completely honest with yourself. What are some of the things that bring you that joy that is so easy to enjoy yet are effortless for you? Follow those things. Like to eat food? Become a food critic or cook. Like to talk with others? Start a podcast about something you are interested in. And no, you do not need to be an expert in whatever you do. Just enjoy doing whatever you choose. This will calm your spirit in the long run.

Have a completely open and honest line of communication. That is the most important thing. Remember that everyone is human and us as a species makes many mistakes. Forgive and learn from them. Try to understand yourself to a certain degree before trying to find a partner. If you try to do this while you are still learning yourself the changes may turn you to a completely new direction possibly away from your current partner. Those are the harder separations.

It’s better to have one ride or die than a thousand sorry I was busys. Look for people that either resonate with you or bring you higher. Both of those bring you closer to your truer self. Reciprocate what you receive and be rewarded.

With wins eventually come losses. Understand what the loss means to you and learn what to do next time. Take time to grieve for yourself, loved ones and people that you admire. Find music that makes you want to get up and dance to break the depression loop. You can chain other habits with music to make things easier to do consistently.